Signs That Can Help You Spot You’re In A Wrong Relationship
6They will try to change you
Some people mold themselves according to your interest while others try to do it to you. This is something fairly common and we have all experienced this at some point. One partner starts criticizing the dressing sense or style, or the way they talk of their partner. They try to change them. But this is wrong and should not be tolerated. Whoever is dating you should date you for who you are. You shouldn’t let anyone change you.
7They will try to make you do things
Before getting into a relationship, everyone has an idea of what their partner will be like. However, real people won’t exactly match someone’s fantasy. So they get into a relationship and then try to shape their partner according to what the like. It might start with small things like suggesting you change your hair color or get a tattoo. Eventually, it might get more serious. Stop this as soon as it starts. Break up immediately.
8Your partner has lower emotional intelligence
This is something that is actually important in a relationship. Emotional intelligence or emotional quotient (EQ) is your ability to perceive and control your own emotions and appreciate the feelings of other people. If your partner has lower EQ, they may appear “insensitive” towards something you say. They may think you are overreacting to something when it really affects you. This is a sign that you are not right for each other.
9How can you spot someone with low EQ?
During first dates, you can easily find out if your date has low EQ. They often get irritated when you talk about emotional things, they don’t care about things like misfortunes of others, etc. talk about some world affairs and their opinions about certain things will show if they are insensitive or not.
10Your partner is inherently selfish
Selfish people are the worst people to be in a relationship with. They almost always care about themselves only. They will be with you as long as it serves their purpose. They want you to do things for them but will never do the opposite. They will find excuses whenever you need something from them.