Research Says Couples Who Fight A Lot Actually Love Each Other More

Marital research has revealed that 44% of married couples have admitted that when they fight at least twice a week, it improves their relationship and makes it more productive and healthier. It has been found that those couples who argue often in a decent and non-hurtful or aggressive manner are more likely to remain together simply because they know that in spite the misunderstanding, their love is secure and true. These 10 points collected from research reveals why fighting can also be good for a relationship.

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1Fighting is a sign of a mature relationship

Avoiding conflict frequently is not a good way to improve and develop a long lasting relationship. If arguing can help you to speak your mind clearly, then you and your partner are ready to take the relationship to the next level. Mature partners don’t resort to arguing hurtfully, violently or aggressively. They argue maturely without personal attacks. They try to argue healthily in order to reach a compromise and improve their relationship.

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2Fighting means you both care for each other

The reason partners in love fight is because they care enough to want the other to see reason through well thought arguments. It is when one doesn’t even care to argue or communicate that the relationship is in danger. It would easy to turn a blind eye to your partner’s bad habits which may annoy you but if you are willing to withstand the discomfort of an argument to get a good result, then this is an indication of true love.

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Argument means commitment. If you remember how much you would fight with your siblings, then it is the same with a partner. If both of you argue and then forget and makeup or get over it, then it means both of you are able to see beyond your argument and get the bigger picture.

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3Fighting makes communication easier

You should never keep quiet if you want to build trust in your relationship. In a relationship, it is always good for both partners to approach each other with an open mind and accept responsibility for each other’s actions by paying more attention to each other and listening carefully.

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Arguing is one of the best forms of communication

Arguing is one of the more important forms of communication and also an honest one. It can increase intimacy, and trust. It can establish a better connection and help your partner communicate effectively and productively.

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4Fighting means a healthy relationship

According to psychologists, there are 7 main points to a happy and healthy relationship. Arguing is one of them. When couples don’t argue, it is a sign that the relationship is breaking down and something is amiss and something is not quite right.

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When couples argue, they start discussing the things important to them which helps them to reconsider their values and feelings. The argument should always be healthy and non aggressive or non combative.  Points should be stated without name-calling or screaming.

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