Ladies, men would want you to know these 9 things
Communication is the key to every relationship, but sometimes couples have hard time understanding each other anyway. These are the crucial things any men would want you to know. Read carefully and you can thank us later.
1 Men don’t know what women want
Ah the scary truth… Do you want a gentleman or a bad boy? Do you want him to do this or that? If you are not going to say things out loud, men won’t read your mind (unless they’re Edward Cullen, which hopefully they aren’t). So, speak out, say what you want or what you don’t want, tell him your wishes, needs and dreams, so he can get a better picture. Communication is the key to every successful relationship.
2 It is normal when they look at other women
People are visual creatures, and how can you forbid anyone to look at something or someone. So why getting mad when his eyes are wandering after that woman who just crossed your table? Unless he stares and doesn’t listen to what you are saying, you really can’t get mad for something like that. Instead tease him, or stare with him too.
3 Men don’t have only one “type” when it comes to women
While women clearly say that they want a tall guy, with blue eyes, dark hair, men wouldn’t put their taste in a frame. They really don’t mind the hair color, or the woman’s eyes if they like her. When it comes to short term romances, men would strictly go for the physical looks (curves, legs). When it comes to relationships, men wouldn’t really be that detail oriented, if they like you, they like you, it really doesn’t matter that you don’t look like a femme fatal.
4 They do most of the things in order to be liked by women
Okay, maybe not everything, but if they’re going to be honest, they ride that bike or play their guitar, hoping that a lovely woman would notice them. The better they are in what they are doing, the more popular they get. And truth be told, women like men who are passionate about what they do (even if that is just a hobby).
5 Men really find women without makeup attractive
Yes, women love makeup and they don’t beautify themselves because of men, but most men truly find natural beauty more attractive than layers of lipsticks, mascaras, rouges and foundations. Most men will tell you that they adore their partners’ face right after they wake up.
6 Men are not going to cheat on you
Most women are practically convinced that all men are cheaters. That’s not true. If we are going to look on this problem, then all women are cheaters too because, these men need another person to do the deed. A man who really loves his wife or girlfriend knows perfectly well that temporary physical satisfaction can never hold a candle to the satisfaction of the returned love of the woman he cares about.
7 Men really don’t care about your ex
Who cares how great he was, or if he hurt you? It was in the past. It is okay to mention them but don’t bring them in every conversation you have, otherwise your new partner would think that you are either comparing him to your ex or that you are still not over him.
8 Men truly think their significant others are good enough
He finds his girlfriend attractive, smart, beautiful, sexy and all that. Sometimes women think that they aren’t good enough or compare themselves with other women (especially with the ex girlfriend which is the worst mistake they can do). If a man has committed himself to you, it is because they want you the way you are. Even though some women don’t always hear these words out loud, it doesn’t mean that their husbands or boyfriend think differently.
9 Men want you to appreciate them
Every human being wants respect and appreciation, so ladies, don’t be harsh. Tell them they look good, thank them if they finished any house work or if they came to pick you up after work. Men truly love these kinds of affection gestures.