7 Signs you are going out with a gold digger
You have just got a new girlfriend and wonder whether the girl you are dating really is with you for love or just for the money. The vilest part of the whole thing is that you find yourself caring for her genuinely.
Though guys are very good at making decisions pertaining to business, seeing through clients or knowing in and out of our cars, but when it comes to a feline charming its way in our lives, we are no match for them.
“Gold Digger” is a female implication and for the sake of stereotyping it is known as a woman who enters in a romantic relationship for the sake of money. Male gold diggers are just called moochers. To be in such a relationship is soul sucking and betraying.
But how to tell if the woman you are in love with and share a relationship is only with you for the money. Here are 7 such signs of knowing whether you are in a relationship with a gold digger.
1 You have to attend functions you don’t want to
Your girlfriend knows some people at some Italian place she used to hang out. You don’t know anyone there and still are cajoled into attending an event there. After sitting down it finally hits you and you think, “I’m the only guy, here.” The only male at the table you will only get to contribute 4-5 words in the conversations and would have to foot the bill too and she will force you to pay it.
Despite the fact that it’s the Wednesday night and you have made plans to hang out with your friends and have couple of beers and talk guy stuff.
2 You buy her something as a way to apologise
As guys we are not used to argue about everything under the sun. Also we need to have some logic in the argument, but this rule doesn’t apply to ladies.
Most of their tactics include arguing to the point where you get irritated to the point that you concede defeat just to get her to stop talking. The reason behind the inane fight was because she might have wanted a new dress or a new pair of Jimmy Choo shoes and the only way was to get you to calm her down by getting what she needed.
You might let it go once or twice, but if it keeps repeating once every month, you start to question the meaning of the relationship.
3 She throws tantrums
Tantrums are something that a child throws when said no to anything. But if a grown up starts to do this, that too your girlfriend, you should rethink your priorities in your love life.
Tantrum is nothing but the lack of any problem. And if a girl throws a tantrum like a child because you said no to a trip or an expensive necklace, just leave from there immediately. Pack up your stuff and count your blessings.
4 She doesn’t look like a real person to you
Sometimes you find yourself asking questions like what does she does for a living, does she have parents, where did she go to college and other things.
That’s because you go out so much and she hardly has anything to eat. The conversations you have with her seem completely shallow. You cannot seem to get a grasp on her personality and the interest in knowing her is very low. Meaning, if you didn’t spend time together, you wouldn’t have anything to talk about since you don’t know anything about her.
5 She buys new dress for every event
She always seems to be buying dresses left, right and center. For e.g. she might have hundreds of black dresses in her closet and the briefcase, but if you ask her to get ready to visit a funeral of a close family member, she will immediately ask you to wait, drive off in her car in order to buy herself a new dress and that too with your card.
6 She blatantly asks you for money
Sometimes card is not enough and she asks for cash. First time you ignore it and give her the money because she is your girlfriend and also smoking hot. You also care for her wellbeing and want to support her in any way.
But then it becomes a habit and you find yourself lending her money every now and then and she begins to get dependent on you. When you try to avoid giving her money, she starts to ask for it in situations where you would seem like a bad guy for refusing her.
That’s the time to cut the ties and the losses.
7 There is a chance she really knows you as a person
The most important thing in a relationship is to know each other better. But you have been with a girl who uses you generally as an ATM. You look into her eyes during dinner one day and ask her what was the name of you grandfather whose funeral you just attended. Or you ask her what your favorite eating place is.
She umms and aahhs and come up with a blank look. The whole circumstances will make you to realize that she isn’t the person who knows you nor has any ability to do so. In a relationship, it’s really important and necessary that the person you are with takes steps in order to know you inside and outside.
Unless you are looking for an ultra-hot girlfriend who fulfills your physical needs, you need to get up from that dining table, pack your stuff and say bye to the relationship and find someone who might not be hot or sexy, but will make you feel like a great person and makes efforts to know about yourself.