Signs That Let You Know You Have A Strong Personality That May Scare People
Our world is a vicious one where people feed off the insecurities and fears of others. This has led many people to keep their lives to themselves and stay hidden. They are silent and always in the background. They fear confrontation and can be easily persuaded by words or intimidation.
The people out in front are the loud and bold ones. They are of two personality types: the dominant one and the strong one. There is a big difference between the two even though they are often mistaken with one another. Today we’re here to discuss the later of the two, the strong personality.
What are the signs that show you are of the strong personality type? What are the characteristics that differentiate you from the dominant type and how and why can you intimidate people.
1You choose your friends
You know people, you know people very well. You have been through enough in your life that has given you a sense of the world around you and the people in it. You know people are fake and feelings can be false. You know people can lie and pretend to get what they want or need. To avoid this you don’t make friends easily and you choose whom you want as a friend.
2You are careful about who enters your life
As a strong and wise person, you don’t care about people and their validation. You don’t rely on other people to tell you who you are, what you can do, etc. You also don’t hesitate to tell people how they really are and how they behave with people. You tell it as it is and don’t try to hide the truth or sugar-coat it when it is needed.
3You do not seek attention
As a strong person you don’t require to be in the spotlight, you actually don’t care for it. You are happy the way you are and matter of fact you attract people towards you. You have the kind of personality that attracts and draws people to you. Your honesty is the major factor that draws people in.
4Your personality draws people in
When people meet you they see you as a person who thrives on attention but the reality is the opposite. Your personality is the perfect shield as people can’t read you easily. They think you are one thing when in reality you are another. You are honest and frank and this personality type draws people towards you. You don’t have a huge friends circle because you want it; you have it because your friends need you.
5You hate validation
There are many people who are outspoken and bold not because they want to be or are that way; they do things like that because they want validation from the people around them. The need constant approval that whatever they are doing is being noticed and that they are right. But strong people aren’t affected by that. They just do what they think is right even if everyone around them disapproves.