According To The Scientists, Your Meanest Friend Cares The Most About You
It is human tendency to get closer to those people who are supportive and friendly to us while we make distance from those who are mean to us. If you analyze your list of friends, you will find that the top spots are acquired by those people who are always nice to you and you like to spend time with them but there is something which we will tell you about your friends which you may have not noticed till now.
Have you ever thought why you like to be with a person who is mostly mean and ruthlessly honest to you, here is the answer:
1Trust your instinct:
It may happen that you start feeling more comfortable with a friend who is mean and insensitive towards you and says things which hurt you. In the beginning, it may look strange but believe us, there should be some people in life who don’t mind making us uncomfortable with their honest talks.
2These unkind people may be our best friends:
Yes, you read it right, those friends who are insensitive and don’t mind using negative words for you are the ones who care about you the most. They can easily be called as your best friends who intentionally behave like this, as they believe that it will be good for us in the long run.
3The research says that:
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4They do this because they care:
In simple words, we can say that such type of friends who don’t think twice before saying negative things to us are the ones who actually care for us. They are pretty sure that such behavior on their part may make us angry at the moment but it will do a greater good to us in the future.
5This is what the leading scientist said:
The famous scientist, who was also a part of the research, Belén López-Pére, explained that how can someone become ruthless in order to bring good results by making another person feel bad, that too when the latter is already facing a crisis in life.