How to recognize signs of your inner truth before its too late
Majority of people are today living dual lives. One is a façade that they put up in front of the world and one is the real inner self which they have hidden somewhere because it is too much pain to realize that self. But that inner self shows you the real you and people fear to face that truth because that inner self doesn’t respond to lies and always gives you the truth. Start trusting that inner self more because the following 6 signs will alarm you a lot if you have hidden your inner self.
1 Others make decisions for you
We have something inside us which tells us what’s wrong and right and that thing is our inner conscience. It helps us a lot while making decisions that can have big consequences. But sometimes people tend to listen to too many voices in name of taking advices from many people and gradually when some of the people’s advice works, in the long run, you tend to let them make decisions for you. It is better to take advice from everyone who gives it, because it is free. But depend on your knowledge, research and gut feeling while making decisions and being independent is something you need to learn and doing so will liberate you.
2 You want social acceptance
Human is a social animal who likes to mingle among public and in order to do so, one sometimes has to change their outlook and views in order to fit in the crowd. But when this adjustments and changing of the way you think about things goes too far, you lose yourself amongst crowd in order to be accepted into a certain society. People are going to always judge you no matter what you decide to do, so it’s better to listen to what your heart says and do that.
3 Cannot express your emotions
Lots of people have difficulty in showing emotions or some people show emotions easily. But showing emotions at the drop of hat may make people averse to you. Therefore many people tend to hide and bury their emotions inside and develop an alter personality or façade that they put on with people. Even the people who are extremely sad tend to smile and laugh and pretend to have fun in presence of others. This peels away the uniqueness that you once had and nothing remains as years pass by. You need to be more assertive and emotional with the world and it will reciprocate to you.
4 Abuse yourself
Harming yourself is one of the worst things people do when trying to deal with internal emotional turmoil. Self doubt is something that has not only killed many aspirations, but also caused lots of harm to people. You need to love yourself before others love you and harming yourself is a sign of you hating yourself. Start loving yourself more and others will start loving you and start opening yourself up to others more and world will be seen in a different light altogether.
5 You can lie easily to yourself
Lying to get out of a situation can backfire at times and if you keep lying to yourself, you cannot become a better person in life. Lying can only give someone relief for some time, but you will have to come up with many more lies to cover up other lies. So it is more important to be true to yourself, so that you can live in reality.
6 Always angry
One of the biggest vices any person can have is anger and anger not only bad for health both mental and physical, but it also ruins the atmosphere. It is said that one should not make decisions when angry and make promises when happy. Both of those come back to bite you in the back and causes problems. Anger however is harmful not only to the people around you, but to you the most as it drains the last drop of whatever peace you have in mind. Try not to get angry too much and too often.
7 Your wish is always unfulfilled
Everyone has wishes and everyone wants them to be fulfilled at the earliest. But most of time people keep wasting times of wishes that were not fulfilled, rather than thinking of wishes that came true. You should always work hard to not only fulfill your own wish, but also the wishes of others as it will give you a sense of peace like never before. Bottom line is that don’t be selfish, try to be the reason for someone else’s wish coming true.