Here Are 20 Things You Should Avoid To Become A Real Lady
Love all the English classics where women were called ladies and were expected to act like one? That romantic idea of being treated like a lady has not all been lost in this age of gender equality. You can still be a lady with proper grooming and etiquettes and of course, make sure you’re surrounded by the chivalrous gentleman, not men who would never appreciate you and consider you a lady even if you are. Don’t waste your time on undeserving toxic members of your social group. (Again the world here includes educated people who understand the concept of a lady). Coming to the details here we give you 20 suggestions and tips which would not only make you feel but make the world appreciate you as a lady. So avoid these twenty things to be a real lady.
1 Wearing sub-quality fake designer items
This, however, does not mean that you burn a big hole in your pocket to buy the most expensive brands of shoes and clothes. What we mean is buy the best quality and attractive clothes and accessories which you can easily afford. There are many boutiques and stores which sell stylish and elegant outfits and accessories to make you look like a million bucks. At any case DO NOT buy a crass replica of a brand from street vendors as they can easily be made out and immediately makes you look down market and not a lady.
Taste and elegance are the keywords in any ladies wardrobe. You would never catch a true lady wearing ill-fitting jeans or trousers or baggy sweaters just because they are “comfortable”. Always select your wardrobe according to your body size and shape, this same rule can be followed in regular or casual clothing as well.
3Slouching at work and in company
A good posture marks the difference between an ordinary woman and a true lady. Never slouch while typing or dining. Regularity in the habit of proper posture would always make you look elegant. You can also do some back exercises which would strengthen your shoulder and upper back muscles as well.
4Not taking good care of yourself and appearance
A lady is not a tramp; she is always elegant, well turned out no matter what the occasion or time of the day. For this, she meticulously takes care of herself, keeps herself physically fit by participating in sporting activities, eats the healthiest diet, and stays away from excessive smoking or drinking. And most importantly pays attention to her grooming, skin and hair care. A lady can be spotted by her glowing hair, skin and even nails and of course dazzling smile.
A true lady never goes over the top when it comes to her makeup because she follows a healthy skin and hair care regimen which makes her face look glowing naturally without any artificial makeup. Her healthy skin tone would reflect her lifestyle and self-care and she would never need to be burdened with gallons of make-up on her face.