Easy to follow habits to Keep away from negative people
2 What to do when someone is being negative?
Negativity can be a real downer. People looking for conflicts, abusive people, and pessimistic people; there are a variety of negative people who you have to deal with every day. You might not realize they are negative until your own energy can keep draining. So, immediately check if you feel good or bad with this person. If you are feeling down when you are with this person, firstly, do not take their negativity personally. Do not listen to their constant nagging or complaining.
List of negative behaviors and patterns that you can recognize and avoid –
- Emotional manipulation
- Aggressive behavior
- Name calling
- Put downs and sarcasm
- Humiliating and shaming
- Guilt tripping
Anything that does not make you feel good in their company can be deemed to be negative. You can strongly address this problem to them. You can ask them to stop, if they still continue to do what they are doing, you can leave them alone. You deserve your peace and sense of well being. Don’t try to fix them or change them, it will drain you further and they will enjoy the ride.